What Every Athlete Should Know
It is important that an athlete “respect” their coach (teammates, sta4 and volunteers), but sometimes, they act in ways that can be harmful and hurtful to young athletes. It is important for every athlete to understand what is unacceptable behavior and when to reach out to an adult to ask for help and guidance.
WHAT EVERY ATHLETE SHOULD KNOW ABOUT PERSONAL SAFETY
Because everyone associated with our club cares about your safetyvand well-being!It is important that an athlete “respect” their coaches, teammates, staff and volunteers, but sometimes, they may act in ways that can be harmful and hurtful to young athletes.
It is important for every athlete to understand what is unacceptable behavior and when to reach out to an adult to ask for help and guidance.
Everyone needs to help to make sure our Club is a safe and positive environment free of sexual abuse, bullying and harassment.
No Bullying, Emotional or Verbal Abuse Allowed!
• When an adult or another athlete who is bigger, stronger or older tries to make you do something wrong, makes you feel worthless or makes fun of you in order to embarrass you or make you feel bad
• When someone yells at you, calls you names or swears at you
• When someone pushes, shoves, punches, pinches or hurts you in any way
• When someone tries to make you feel like you are a bad person
• When someone repeatedly attempts to control your personal or social life
No Sexual Abuse!
• Sexual contact, sexual attention, and any other behavior with sexual overtones that make you uncomfortable and you do not want to have happen
• Sex jokes, sexual cartoons or photos
• If someone touches you inappropriately, tries to pinch, fondle or kiss you
• Someone talking to you about sex, asking you to have sex, asking you to touch them or kiss them
• Someone talks about your body or your dress or calls you “hot”
• Emails, text messages or uses social media to talk about sex or
No Hazing, Initiation Rituals, or Physical Punishment!
• No team is allowed to have an initiation ritual or make you think that you have to do something embarrassing to be accepted on the team
• Activities that ARE NOT ALLOWED:
• pressuring you to drink alcohol, take drugs, or eat or drink something you don’t want to
• giving you any substance for the purpose of improving performance
• making you shave of any part of the body or take off clothes or show body parts
• making you dress up and look silly
• forcing you to do 100 sit-‐ups or run laps or do hard physical activity as punishment
• asking you to perform a physical activity that is clearly beyond your ability and may cause injury
No Romantic or Dating Relationships with Coaches!
• Your coach must treat every athlete equally and should not be spending time alone with any athlete • The coach is your teacher and romantic relationships are NOT OK
• A coach must always ask for permission prior to any touching of an athlete. The following situations are generally accepted unless “you” the athlete feels uncomfortable:
• when the coaches asks for permission to put a body part in a correct mechanical position or correct physical form;
• a “high five” or pat on the head or back when congratulating an athlete for a good performance;
• “spotting” or any protective coaching intended to reduce the risk of practicing or performing a skill that may cause harm with “spotting” techniques explained to the athletes beforehand;
• In general, if a coach or anyone else touching you makes you feel uncomfortable for any reason, it is okay for you to ask the person to stop and such physical contact must stop immediately no matter what the reason. IF IT FEELS WRONG, IT IS WRONG!